What’s the connection between OCD and perfectionism?

Are you a person who organizes their closet by color? Do you struggle to relax if your home is in disarray? Maybe you have a strong preference for order and prefer everything to be in its place. If so, you might call yourself a perfectionist. 

People use this term to describe a personality trait that is characterized by unrealistically high standards. People who have perfectionist tendencies strive for flawlessness. They may feel stressed or anxious when mistakes inevitably occur. 

Perfectionism is not a mental health condition. However, it’s a common experience for people living with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Learning more about the similarities and differences between OCD and perfectionism can help you better understand yourself and know when it might be time to ask for help.

Perfectionism vs OCD

Perfectionism and OCD are not the same thing. But they share some characteristics. Like other personality traits, perfectionism exists on a spectrum. The desire to avoid mistakes and do things the “right” way isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes, a little bit of perfectionism can help you achieve your goals. 

Perfectionism, when managed effectively, can lead to positive outcomes. Here are some examples:

• As a manager: You set high standards for yourself and your team. You expect things to be done with precision and on time, and you do your best to set your team up for success. However, you also understand that perfection is not always attainable and encourage your team to learn from mistakes. This balanced approach helps foster a culture of excellence without creating undue stress. 

• As an artist: You’re a relatively new artist, and you’re considering showcasing a painting in a local art show. Part of you feels like you can’t let anyone see your work until it’s perfect. While your perfectionism pushes you to refine your craft continually, you also recognize the value of sharing your work and receiving feedback. This approach helps you grow creatively and professionally, using perfectionism as a tool for continuous improvement rather than a barrier to productivity.

• As a student: You’ve always earned straight As, and you’re proud of your academic record. This year, you have an opportunity to take an advanced calculus class, which is a subject you find particularly challenging. You initially hesitate due to concerns about maintaining your perfect record, but you signed up anyway. You figured it would be a learning experience that could sharpen your study skills and help you grow academically, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone.

As you can see, perfectionism isn’t always unhealthy. But when it causes problems in your life or keeps you from doing things you love, it could be cause for concern. Having perfectionistic tendencies doesn’t mean that you have OCD or another mental health condition. But research shows that people with OCD may be more likely to display perfectionistic traits. 

How OCD can lead to perfectionism

OCD causes intrusive, upsetting thoughts called obsessions. In response, people engage in repeated, ritualistic behaviors, called compulsions, to alleviate the anxiety brought on by their obsessions. 

People with OCD may attempt to use perfectionism as a way to minimize mistakes and manage the uncertainty that comes from their obsessive thoughts. But unlike temporary, situational perfectionism, OCD-induced perfectionism can significantly impair a person’s daily functioning and overall well-being. 

Here are some examples of how OCD can lead to perfectionism:

• Alex lives with a form of OCD called “just right” OCD, which involves a strong need for things to be arranged perfectly. Part of his job involves filling orders and stacking packages for shipping. He gets upset if the packages aren’t organized alphabetically, even though it doesn’t make a difference for the shipping carrier. He spends hours stacking and unstacking the boxes until they’re perfect or “just right.” But this means he can’t attend to his other work responsibilities, so he recently received a negative performance review.

• Charlie lives with a form of OCD called relationship OCD, characterized by persistent doubts about their partner’s commitment. It causes intense, unfounded worries about their partner’s commitment, so they need constant reassurance. Charlie wonders if the relationship, while loving, is really as perfect as it seems. So they analyze every interaction with their partner, and this puts a damaging strain on the relationship.

• Olivia lives with a form of OCD called contamination OCD, which involves cleanliness and an intense fear of germs. She’s always worried about cleanliness and fears that something devastating will happen if she comes into contact with germs. Each night, she engages in an elaborate cleaning ritual that takes hours to complete. She lives in fear that if she doesn’t sanitize everything perfectly she will get seriously sick. This ritual consumes significant time and energy, impacting her daily life and well-being.

Managing symptoms of OCD and perfectionism

If you have OCD and you’re struggling with perfectionism, there are some things you can do to manage your symptoms.

1. Attune to your values. Your perfectionism might make you think that you have to do everything flawlessly or something catastrophic will happen. But instead of responding to that anxiety, try to use your values to make decisions. Given that time, energy, and money are limited resources, what feels most important to achieve today?
2. Take a risk. Give yourself permission to make a small mistake or accept something as “good enough.” Then, pay attention to the outcome. This will help you see that, most of the time, your worst-case scenario fears won’t come true.
3. Consider the payoff. Think about what your perfectionism gives you and what it takes away. Often, more effort doesn’t yield a better result. 
4. Avoid procrastination. Some people with OCD tend to procrastinate. They may have a hard time starting a project until the conditions are “perfect.” So try breaking big tasks into smaller steps, and give yourself plenty of time to get things done. 
5. Ask for help. If you have OCD (or you think you might), working with a therapist can help you manage perfectionism and other challenges.

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There’s nothing wrong with wanting things to be done correctly or trying to avoid mistakes. But if perfectionism is negatively affecting your life, relationships, or mental health, it could be a sign of an underlying mental health condition like OCD. Fortunately, OCD is treatable, and you can learn to manage your symptoms with the right support. 

With Rula, you can connect with the OCD care you deserve from the comfort of home. In just a few clicks, you can explore our extensive network, find a provider who takes your insurance, and make your first appointment as soon as tomorrow. 

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