Recognizing and shifting ADHD procrastination

If you live with attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), you may have a hard time getting things done in a timely manner. It’s not like you don’t understand the importance of the tasks in front of you, but sometimes it may feel simply impossible to start and finish tasks on time. You may put these tasks off longer and longer, which can cause serious consequences in your life.

ADHD procrastination happens because of the way ADHD causes executive function limitations in your brain. It’s definitely not a sign of laziness, and there are ways to cope with this aspect of ADHD and manage tasks in a more effective way.

Is procrastination a sign of ADHD?

Procrastination is not officially recognized as a clinical symptom of ADHD. But for people who live with ADHD, it’s a common experience. If you have ADHD, you may often find that you can’t get started on tasks no matter how important they are. It could even feel like the more important a task is, the more you procrastinate on it. 

Research shows that the more severe your ADHD symptoms are, the more likely you are to procrastinate. ADHD can cause procrastination because of the ways it affects your brain. One main effect of ADHD is executive dysfunction. This causes problems with executive functioning skills, which are the more complex brain functions like problem solving, impulse control, and self-motivation.

People with ADHD may also procrastinate as a maladaptive behavior to try to cope with ADHD-related anxiety. Procrastination isn’t an effective coping skill, but it can often feel like the only way to deal with looming tasks. In addition, putting important tasks off can lead to consequences, which can make the tasks more anxiety provoking to deal with. In other words, procrastination can become a vicious cycle.

Although procrastination is a common theme for people with ADHD, it can have serious effects on your well-being. Research shows that frequent procrastination is linked with lower life satisfaction in some cultures, and it can also affect how you view your capabilities and self-esteem.

Why do people with ADHD procrastinate more?

If one thing’s for sure, it’s that ADHD procrastination doesn’t mean you’re lazy or a failure. Instead, it has to do with the way ADHD affects your brain — and it may sometimes be outside of your control, especially if your ADHD symptoms are untreated.

Because people with ADHD experience executive dysfunction, they often aren’t able to get started on tasks even when they know they need to. In addition, other ADHD symptoms can make procrastination worse.

Some ADHD-related factors that can lead to procrastination include:

• Issues with motivation: Difficulties with self-motivation can make it hard for you to start on tasks when there’s no external motivating factor. This can cause you to procrastinate until you’re in an immediate crisis, like procrastinating on paying bills until debt collectors are calling or procrastinating on work tasks until you face discipline.
• ADHD paralysis: ADHD paralysis can cause you to feel physically stuck. For example, you might feel like you can’t get up off the sofa to start working, even when you know you need to. It might feel like there’s so much to do that you feel completely overwhelmed.
• Trouble paying attention and remembering: Two key symptoms of ADHD are forgetfulness and inattention. You might procrastinate on important tasks simply because you forget about them or get distracted while doing them. Research shows that people with ADHD remember less about their intentions, meaning you may forget about a task that you planned to do. 
• Problems with focus: People with ADHD often have a hard time staying focused on boring or repetitive activities. They also have trouble with impulse control. When these two factors are combined, it can make you more likely to procrastinate on important (but boring) tasks and seek out more enjoyable activities instead. You might start getting things done but then easily become sidetracked by more “fun” activities.
• Perfectionism: ADHD perfectionism can also be a factor that leads to procrastination. You could have anxiety around getting things perfectly right and not allow yourself the grace to make mistakes. Needing to do things perfectly is a lot of pressure and may make you less inclined to even start on important tasks.

How to break the cycle of procrastination when you have ADHD

When you have ADHD, breaking the cycle of procrastination is easier said than done. Most people with ADHD desperately want to stop procrastinating, but the way their brain works can make this goal very difficult to achieve. Traditional productivity tips designed for neurotypical people may not be effective for people with ADHD. 

However, it’s important to know that it’s possible to stop procrastinating with ADHD, and there are strategies you can use — including getting ADHD treatment — that can help.

• Make it fun. If you live with ADHD, you’re probably drawn toward fun and engaging activities, and you may procrastinate on repetitive or boring tasks. One way to deal with this procrastination is to make mundane tasks interesting and fun. For example, try gamifying tasks. Find fun ways to reward yourself for completion. Do boring tasks with a friend. When these tasks are more stimulating, you may be less likely to procrastinate on them.
• Practice self-compassion. People with ADHD often struggle with self-esteem. You may blame yourself for your procrastination tendencies, or others may have labeled you as “lazy.” Try to practice self-compassion while working toward reducing procrastination. 
• Start small. ADHD paralysis can happen when the tasks in front of you feel so overwhelming that you don’t even know where to start. Instead of looking at your to-do list as a whole, try starting small. For example, instead of focusing on cleaning your entire home, focus on the next small task on your list. Perhaps the next task is to simply get up off the couch. Breaking tasks down into “microsteps” can help you get started.
• Get an accountability partner. If you live with ADHD, finding the motivation within to get things done can be a challenge. “Body doubling” is a technique that people with ADHD can use to help them get things done. It involves completing tasks in the presence of someone else, either physically or virtually. Try inviting a friend to be present with you while you get a task done. It may help keep you accountable.
• Get treatment. Getting professional treatment to manage your ADHD symptoms can help reduce symptoms like inattention, forgetfulness, and impulsivity that may lead to procrastination. Medication can help, and therapy can provide a place for you to address the negative self-talk that often comes along with chronic procrastination.

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Dealing with ADHD procrastination can be difficult. When you procrastinate on important tasks, it can affect your quality of life and self-esteem. You might face the consequences of putting off important tasks and end up feeling bad about yourself. Fortunately, there are ways to deal with ADHD procrastination, but it’s important to approach the issue with self-compassion.

A therapist can help you understand why ADHD affects you in this way and teach you how to practice self-acceptance when life gets tough. Rula has helped hundreds of thousands of people find affordable in-network therapy, and you can have your first session as soon as tomorrow.

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