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Arthur Mallinson LPC. I attempt to create a space where the client can feel that they are being heard with compassion. I help them to identify thinking errors that are keeping them from moving towards a life with more satisfaction and happiness.
My approach
I have used CBT for most therapy. I have a certification on CPT which has been very satisfying for clients with trauma. I have found the most important thing I can offer my client is to show I am a compassionate listener who is not there to solve a problem, but to help them discover a way forward.
My focus
I have worked with a wide range of clients - ages, cultures and diagnosis. Most have been wrestling with self esteem issues, anxiety and depression. i have found myself more capable and confident in working with these.
My communication style
Compassionate respectful listening is essential. I also find humor and occasional silliness to be of value, when appropriate.
My journey to mental healthcare
I was a Catholic priest for 27 years with Master's degrees in theology and education. This a happy and satisfying ministry, but I decided I needed to come to terms with my sexuality and that I would like to be a happy gay man in a loving relationship. This I have. My bishop gave me the financial support to attain my master's in counseling. I had always found counseling to be satisfying as a priest and it seemed natural to continue - but with training and without the need to have a spiritual context. ( if the client brings up a spiritual concern, I am able to help them - no matter what belief system ). I am driven to help other to realize more hope in their lives.
My goals for you
I let is be known at first session that I do not set goals and I do not give advice. I frequently tell them, "The only advice I can give is how to be a 68 year old White man, and if that is your goal I would be very afraid." Reaching a goal must be in a way that is emotionally and logically attuned to them. I will help them to recognize thinking errors that are obstacles in obtaining these goals
My first session with you
I would like to know a little about their history, family, education, and vocational aspirations/background. I will remind them that we are both strangers to each other and that it takes time to build a level of familiarity and trust that will be valuable in a therapeutic relationship. Some things may be difficult to talk about, thus confidentiality is essential and I cannot talk about them, useless to consult with another practitioner, of if there is concern due to suicidal ideation or an attempt.
