Gary Rhodes

I am here for you. My name is Dr. Jay Rhodes, and I am a board-certified, Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist in Maryland, and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Oklahoma and Texas. I have a passion for helping individuals find healing, growth, and transformation in their lives. I have extensive education, experience, and expertise in various fields of counseling, ministry, human relations, Christianity, and Buddhism. I have worked with clients from diverse backgrounds and cultures in various settings such as military bases, combat zones, hospitals, schools, embassies, consulates, to nonprofit homeless ministries. I have helped individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and groups deal with a wide range of issues such as anxiety, depression, traumatic stress, and relationships.

My approach

I use a variety of evidence-based modalities that suit your needs and preferences of my clients Some of these include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), Marital Infidelity Therapy, Porn Sex Addiction Therapy, Clinical Pastoral Counseling, Spiritually Integrated Psychotherapy. I offer online counseling via secure video conferencing for your convenience and comfort.

My focus

Are you feeling stressed, anxious, depressed, or struggling with past trauma or unhealthy relationships? Do you long for more peace, joy, and fulfillment in your life and relationships? Do you need someone who can listen, understand, and help you through your challenges? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are not alone. Many people struggle with personal, relational, and internal issues that affect their well-being and happiness. But there is hope. You can overcome your difficulties and achieve your goals with the help of a professional counselor who cares about you and your situation.

My communication style

My approach to counseling is focused on life-changing results, compassion, and respect. I create a safe supportive environment where clients can feel comfortable sharing their thoughts feelings behaviors beliefs values goals dreams. I empower you to make positive changes to achieve your desired outcomes. You don’t have to suffer alone or settle for less than what is possible. You can have a better life.

My journey to mental healthcare

I was awarded a full scholarship to attend Texas A&M University-Central Texas. At the school, I earned the most outstanding graduate in Marriage and Family Therapy. After graduating I was hired as a part-time professor at the school and became actively engaged in counseling soldiers and their families. I expanded my work with clients from diverse backgrounds and cultures in various settings around the world such as military bases, combat zones, hospitals, schools, embassies, consulates, to nonprofit homeless ministries. I have helped individuals, couples, families, children, adolescents, and groups deal with a wide range of issues such as anxiety, depression, traumatic stress, and relationships. Anxiety, depression, traumatic stress, and relationships are my specialties.

My goals for you

I tend to exercise empathy, unconditional positive regard, and congruence as I assist the client in working through their concerns. I find that a balance between realism and help the you set realistic goals that engage and inspire you to see a more optimistic outlook. As attainable goals are reached, you will develop a sense of resilience and confidence that can help in all areas of life.

My first session with you

I do have a great deal of education: three undergraduate degrees, 4 master's degrees, and a doctorate; however, none of that education tells me your story. Only you can tell me what is going on with you. You are the expert on what is going on inside you. During the first session, you can share your story and we can begin to work together to choose a counseling modality that is right for you. As I learn about you, I will provide you with the results of a personality assessment and discuss different treatment options and how they can be tailored to help you.